After some time away on compassionate leave, I’m back at work—and carrying a different kind of weight with me. I recently lost my godmother, a woman who played a powerful and formative role in my life. Grief is never easy to navigate, but one thing I’ve learned through this experience is that it’s okay to show up as you are, even when you’re still healing.
Coming back to work has been a mix of emotions. On one hand, the structure and rhythm of a routine offer comfort. On the other, it’s a reminder that life goes on—even when someone who mattered so deeply is no longer here.
My godmother was one of those rare people who lived fully and fearlessly. She travelled the world, chased joy, took chances, and never let fear or doubt hold her back. If there’s one lesson she left behind for all of us, it’s this: life is short—do what you love and don’t wait.
That message has stayed with me more than ever. As I return to the workplace, I do so with a refreshed perspective. Yes, there is sadness—but there’s also clarity. I want to carry her legacy with me in how I live my own life. That means making more room for what lights me up, saying yes to new experiences, and choosing purpose over perfection.
Grief doesn’t follow a straight path. It changes shape day to day. But what helps is remembering that we honour those we’ve lost not just in quiet moments, but by living the kind of life they would have wanted for us.
So if you’re returning to work after loss—whether recently or years later—know that you’re not alone. Give yourself the grace to ease back in. There’s no rush to “be okay.” The important thing is to keep moving, even gently, toward what matters most.
Thank you to everyone who offered support, understanding, and space during this time. Your kindness means more than you know.
Here’s to living fully, loving fiercely, and travelling the world—just like she did.